I am a recovering alcoholic/addict. I’ve been sober for over 6 years. The freedom from my addictions is amazing. I’m blessed to not have the desire to use. I know that everything can change in an instant. My concerns are that my husband is still in active addiction and my adult son is also in active addiction. My husband’s doc is crack and my son’s is heroin. I am sick and tired of being there for everyone and no one is there for me. My son desperately wants to be clean and struggles with relapse constantly. Watching his life pass him by is heartbreaking. My husband just doesn’t care. I’ve realized that he’s just gonna do whatever he wants to do. I have to decide how much more I can take. I no longer believe the lies. I guess I’m just looking for support from others who know what this is like.