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I have been with my fiancé for about 2 years now and in that two years he has done 7 months in rehab, and relapsed twice since. He has the drive and ambition to stay sober he just sometimes gets lost in his thinking and has a hiccup. I support him as much as I can by going to meetings with him, have him active in the gym, constantly stay positive around him. My question is this how do I not lose "myself" in this as well as continue helping him in the process? I have tried AL-ANON groups and it was an extremely negative experience and were almost coming off as ANTI relationship. I am here for the long haul with my fiancé and am seeking positive advice.